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I am having a hard time communicating with my wife, I am deployed for the next 9 months. Any advice?

We’ve been married for 5 months. We’re both from the same rural area/high school. I’ve been in the Army (right out of high school) almost 6 years. The problem is I only talk about the Army, back “home”, sexually/pornographic in nature or the have-to topics (bills, etc). We have discussed this problem many many times. I don’t know HOW or WHAT to say. I don’t write - notes or emails. And talking over the phone is complicated because of my hearing difficulties as well as the time-delay and static. I have a time-limit on the malfunctioning computer with slow Internet, too. we did video teleconferencing (VTC) on Valentine’s Day for 5 minutes I was very uncomfortable in a briefing room and sat almost entirely in silence trying to adjust to a sound delay and let her talk. I try to start with the common stuff I love her, how is she doing, but she always stops me and tells me that i am not personal enough i dont know she wont help me she always says the “If i need to tell you line”
She is 19 years old, just had a baby from a previous relationship, has always had trouble with men and domestic violence she cant look me in the eye her boyfriend before me was an anthropology major. She is a psychology major. I am 23 in the army I am an infantry sergeant and i have a 133 IQ and no clue what she wants most of the time she says that she loves me and i am all she wants and needs that i make her happy when every other time she isnt happy, “doesn’t like this” and is ready to leave on the next bus. I worry about her leaving me i’m so confused
what is a teleconference mediator?

a freind recieved a letter from the court for pettion of custody from another state . the letter said call the teleconference mediator. i think its a way to communiate when one party is in another state.
No worries of being lonely?

This survey is for upcoming services purposes and so you determine what you want or hope to see…
Pls answer; i.e. Q1) Online dating sites Q2) 21
Q1) Online dating sites? Matchmaking? Chatting? Referrals?
(Q2) What is the best minimum age?? (of coz above 18)
(Q3) Do you think it shud be categorize by status?? and still open for inter-status date??
(Q4) Do you think you would rather have some pre-dating session like to talk/chat on the phone first and arrange the date yourself??
(Q5) When you’re matchmake to someone,Do you think its good to be able to view it online??
(Q6) Do you think its a bonus to still enable you to browse and self-search?? (Introduction profiles) *Intro profiles is meant to secure other detailed infos on members…..
(Q7) Does it benefit you if you to have a mass tele-conferencing and browse their profiles online??
(Q8) What kind of features you would like to have in a online matchmaking agency??
(Q9) What price is right??
Deployed husband has hard time communicating with me. I don’t want to be in silence while apart. What to do?

We’ve been married for 5 months. We’re both from the same rural area/high school. He’s been in the Army (right out of high school) almost 6 years. The problem is he only talks about the Army, back “home”, sexually/pornographic in nature or the have-to topics (bills, etc). We have discussed this problem many many times. He claims he doesn’t know HOW or WHAT to say. He says he doesn’t write - notes or emails. And talking over the phone is complicated because of his hearing difficulties as well as the time-delay and static. He has a time-limit on the malfunctioning computer with slow Internet, too. I understand the difficulties with the phone and the internet. However, we did video teleconferencing (VTC) on Valentine’s Day for 5 minutes in which he sat almost entirely in silence. He wants to talk to me but he says he “doesn’t know how”. He’s in Iraq and will be for the next 9 months. I’ve been patient and just want to communicate with my husband especially now that we are apart.
Is this wrong?

One of my coworkers has a sexy voice. It makes me feel shivers and tingles whenever I hear him talk on a teleconference. I have seen him in person, and I know I’m not especially attracted to him. But something about his voice on the phone, it just makes me melt. Sometimes I have to call him for work related matters, and I look forward to hearing him speak. I never call him for no reason, but I have noticed that I feel a little excited when I see his name on the caller ID on my work phone.
Should I be ashamed of myself? I don’t feel anything for this guy romantically, it’s just the sound of his voice. Does anyone understand what I mean?